Reminders Before You Click “Renew” on Insurance and Benefits

Reminders before you click "renew" at enrollment time. When it comes to employer, private health, and Medicare benefits, it's easy to click "renew last year's choices" and move on. However, it can be worth the extra time to look closely at all options, and how they might have changed. Consider this amusing statistic: "Research shows employees only spend 17 minutes electing their benefits, while Netflix users spend an average of 18 minutes deciding what to watch," according to Kiplinger's. What kind of areas produce tricky choices? Health Insurance - Under 65 and over 65 Long term care insurance - if you can get it Long term disability insurance Life insurance Employer Stock Options and Restricted Stock Employer Retirement Plan Matching Employee Assistance Programs - (which sometimes cover financial planning fees :)) Under 65: Health Insurance If you are under 65, check for HSA (Health Savings Account) eligibility on your policy. Contributing to a family HSA can save roughly $2000/year in taxes (depending on your marginal tax bracket). Plus, if you are relatively healthy and do not use the HSA, your earnings grow tax-free until retirement. Click here [https://www.hollydonaldsonfinancialplanner.com/hsas-over-iras/] for the reasons why HSA’s beat IRA’s as retirement accounts. HSA eligibility, unlike IRA eligibility, is not dependent upon having earned income. The last year you can contribute to an HSA is the year before you turn 65. 65 or Over: Medicare If you are 65 or over, your first opportunity to enroll begins 3 months before you turn 65 and continues until 3 months after, unless you are still employed. Sign up for Part B at the first opportunity (after leaving your employer), otherwise your premiums can increase 8% – 10% per year, permanently. Enrollment for existing Medicare beneficiaries runs from October 15 - December 7. If you are on prescriptions, the formulary - the list of drugs that Part D covers - might have changed. Make sure your prescriptions will still be covered. Stories abound of huge jumps in co-pays after January 1. At www.medicare.gov, you can input your prescriptions and the site will advise you which Part D plan covers the meds you need. Long-Term Care Insurance Group long-term care offerings through employers are becoming a benefit of the past. Private policies can be bought with better coverage, but premiums are increasing. If you have access to a group policy, strongly consider enrollment. Most group policies are portable if you leave the employer, or if the employer stops offering it. Also consider shopping existing group coverage against a private policy. Long-Term Disability This tends to be the most overlooked benefit. We are all more likely to be disabled than to die. Most employers provide short-term disability for 90 days. Long-term disability coverage, if offered, varies from 40% to 80% of compensation until age 65. Some employers provide the opportunity to purchase supplemental coverage; others don’t. Most employees I speak with are either not sure whether they have enrolled in this coverage, or how much they have. Additionally, check whether…

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Good Retirement Planning Involves More than Money

The best retirement plans start with a plan for a fulfilling life first, then match up the plan with money decisions. That's why good planners ask, what's the money for? For most, it's not to support boredom, stagnation and decline. If you define what an ideal retirement means first for you, then your retirement plan and your retirement life have far better chances of success.

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Fall Benefits Reminders Before You Click “Renew”

Fall benefits reminders before you click "renew." When it comes to employer, private health, and Medicare benefits, it's easy to click "renew last year's choices" and move on. However, it can be worth the extra time to look closely at all options, and how they might have changed. Consider this amusing statistic: "Research shows employees only spend 17 minutes electing their benefits, while Netflix users spend an average of 18 minutes deciding what to watch," according to Kiplinger's: http://bit.ly/Kiplingers-Benefits. What kind of areas produce tricky choices? Health Insurance - Under 65 and over 65 Long term care insurance - if you can get it Long term disability insurance Life insurance Employer Stock Options and Restricted Stock Employer Retirement Plan Matching Employee Assistance Programs - (which sometimes cover financial planning fees :)) Under 65: Health Insurance If you are under 65, check for HSA (Health Savings Account) eligibility on your policy. Contributing to a family HSA can save roughly $2000/year in taxes (depending on your marginal tax bracket). Plus, if you are relatively healthy and do not use the HSA, your earnings grow tax-free until retirement. Click here [https://www.hollydonaldsonfinancialplanner.com/hsas-over-iras/] for the reasons why HSA’s beat IRA’s as retirement accounts. HSA eligibility, unlike IRA eligibility, is not dependent upon having earned income. The last year you can contribute to an HSA is the year before you turn 65. 65 or Over: Medicare If you are 65 or over, your first opportunity to enroll begins 3 months before you turn 65 and continues until 3 months after, unless you are still employed. Sign up for Part B at the first opportunity (after leaving your employer), otherwise your premiums can increase 8% – 10% per year, permanently. Enrollment for existing Medicare beneficiaries runs from October 15 - December 7. If you are on prescriptions, the formulary - the list of drugs that Part D covers - might have changed. Make sure your prescriptions will still be covered. Stories abound of huge jumps in co-pays after January 1. At www.medicare.gov, you can input your prescriptions and the site will advise you which Part D plan covers the meds you need. Long-Term Care Insurance Group long-term care offerings through employers are becoming a benefit of the past. Private policies can be bought with better coverage, but premiums are increasing. If you are at least 40 and have access to a group policy, strongly consider enrollment. Most group policies are portable if you leave the employer, or if the employer stops offering it. Also consider shopping existing group coverage against a private policy. Long-Term Disability This tends to be the most overlooked benefit. We are all more likely to be disabled than to die. Most employers provide short-term disability for 90 days. Long-term disability coverage, if offered, varies from 40% to 80% of compensation until age 65. Some employers provide the opportunity to purchase supplemental coverage; others don’t. Most employees I speak with are either not sure whether they have enrolled in this coverage, or how much…

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3 Myths About Retirement Life: There’s More Than Money at Stake

The best retirement plans start with a plan for a fulfilling life first, then match up the plan with money decisions. That's why good planners ask, what's the money for? For most, it's not to support boredom, stagnation and decline. If you define what an ideal retirement means first for you, then your retirement plan and your retirement life have far better chances of success.

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A CFP® Wrote a Bad IRS Check

A CFP® wrote a bad IRS check. That would be me. Yes, I bounced a check to the IRS. Accidentally, of course, but still. Behind my name are the initials "CFP," for CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™, so supposedly I'm some kind of financial expert. And yet, I did a very un-expert thing that even most financial non-experts do not do. Brain Fog The bad check was written in April 2014. The tax year in question was 2013, which was the same year I got an unexpected biopsy (which came out clean after several weeks), an unexpected audit by state regulators (which came out clean after several weeks), and an unexpected divorce (which took "only" several weeks and much of it wasn't clean). All of these - the biopsy, the audit, and the unexpected divorce - happened between August and November. If you've ever been through one or more of the above, perhaps you can relate to the feeling of going through the rollercoaster of life, trying to act like a rational person, but constantly getting hijacked by these human things like emotions. Wishing you could concentrate better, focus like you used to, but the brain just won't cooperate. I wasn't aware I was in that much of a fog. I thought I was keeping it all together pretty well, considering. Until the IRS notice showed up. "Check Payment Not Accepted By Bank: The bank did not accept the enclosed check for the following reason: INSUFFICIENT FUNDS. Please return the bottom portion of this form with a certified check...The PENALTY amount is...The current Interest Charge is..." Shock and Shame "Wut?" I thought. My first reaction was to get mad at the bank. It only took a few minutes, though, to research there was no mistake. Shock, embarrassment, humiliation, shame. My jaw and knees dropped to the floor simultaneously. I bounced a check to the IRS?!? That's when it dawned on me that the events of 2013 were still affecting me or I wouldn't have written a check on one of my new post-divorce checking accounts without putting any money in it first. So, the next paragraph caught my eye. "You can request penalty relief by explaining why you believed the bank would accept the Check and by providing any supporting evidence." My backbone straightened up. Although it was not the bank's error, I needed to plead my case to keep my sanity. Making the Case for Penalty Relief It turns out the IRS (back then) would seriously consider applications for relief, although that doesn't mean they will grant them. First, I immediately deposited more money in the account and had the cashier's check, including the penalty and interest, sent. Then, I sat down to write to the human who would be reading my request. I crossed my fingers that it would be a 40- or 50-something who had been unexpectedly divorced after a 20+ year marriage and perhaps had a biopsy scare plus an audit of some kind. I fell on my…

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Retired Husband Syndrome (RHS)

What is retired husband syndrome (RHS)? I first heard of Retired Husband Syndrome at a book signing in 2013. From across the book section in the exhibit hall, I saw a young man with jet black hair staring at the back of my newly-published book, The Mindful Money Mentality: How to Find Balance in Your Financial Future. He turned it over, opened to the table of contents, flipped a few pages, and turned it over again. Until that point, he acted like other book-browsers: look at the back, flip to the front, open to the table of contents, flip to the back, flip it again. Some would then take the book to the register. Others set it back on the shelf. The whole decision took less than 2 minutes. But this young man took so long reading, I wondered if he might consume the whole book right there. Then I got distracted by conversation with another attendee. When I turned back to look for him, he was gone. Figuring he had decided against it, I was surprised a couple of hours later to see he was the first in line at the book signing. Retired Husband Syndrome – in South Korea Approaching with an enthusiastic smile, he said “Hello” in a heavy Asian accent. He was from Seoul, South Korea, (which, considering English was his second language, might explain why he took longer examining the book). He said that he thought the book would be helpful to his male clients. Unsure why he was excluding the female ones, I readied my pen to sign, but asked him to tell me more. “In Asia, we have Retired Husband Syndrome (RHS),” he said. “I’ve never heard of that. What is it?” I asked, putting the pen down. “Some husbands spend their whole lives working for a company, and when they retire, they are at home, and it is not good for the marriage. The husband loses his identity because he is not in his job anymore, and he wants to be home with his wife. The wife has been at home her whole life, but she doesn’t like the husband being there, doing nothing.” “So sometimes the retired husbands do…nothing? They don’t have hobbies or hang out with their friends?” “Yes, that’s right.” “Wow. So you must see a lot of marriage problems in your practice?” “Yes! And it is too bad. They have a pension, but the couples never spend time planning what they will do.” He explained more about the strain on the marriage; the sadness he sees at a time when there could be great joy and celebration; and the effect on their children and the families. "This makes me sad. Sometimes I am going to be the only person outside of the family who might see it. All of the financial advisors in Seoul could help people with this. This is preventable.” Retirement Planning Is About More Than Money I once heard a financial planner say, “We spend…

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The Retirement Answer? A Blank Stare

The Retirement Answer? A Blank Stare I had just asked a 59-year-old, "You said you can retire in 3 years. How will you spend your time after that?" Expressionless, all he gave was a blank stare. "I never thought about it," he replied. Unfortunately, he wasn't the first 59-year-old with that answer. "I don't know" is a more common answer than most think.  More To Retirement Life Than Money  According to a study by United Capital, when asked about their financial life stories, most people talked about working and spending, not saving and investing. Over the decades of our working lives, we tend to follow a formula: Work. Spend. (Save). Repeat. We do this knowing one day those (savings we try not to think about or touch) should equal a nice sum, hopefully enough to reach the nirvana of "financial independence." Along the way, we can get trapped into planning meals and vacations, but not a potential 25-year chapter of our life. If nothing trips up the formula (divorce, premature death, disability), then a milestone birthday, the loss of a parent, or the arrival of a new boss may cause one to dial up a financial planner and ask, "Am I there yet?"   Are You "There" Yet? To which the answer is usually, "That depends." That depends...on where "there" is. "There" = how, with whom, and where you will find purpose, meaning, and happiness in life after your Work-Spend-(Save)-Repeat chapter. Once that's known, "there" can be translated into real financial goals. If you don't know what "there" looks like, then attempts to answer the question are merely rough guesses. More importantly, if you don't know, you're not likely to enjoy that supposed nirvana time nearly as much.   There are many thought leaders contributing to discoveries about the time of life past "Working" and before "Old." That time of life, which will be 25 or 30 years for a lucky few, goes by many names: Your Third Age. The Third Stage. The Encore Years. Your Life's Next Chapter. Examples of such leaders include Dori Mintzer and Mitch Anthony. According to experts like these, retirement planned well has the potential to be a time of peak fulfillment and meaning. Not planned well, potential paths lead to boredom and, in the worst cases, clinical depression. Real Retirement Planning  Many people think "retirement planning" means "IRA investments" or "401K rollovers" or "pension options." Those are certainly part of it. But the best, yet sometimes the most difficult, kind of retirement planning is not found on your retirement account statements. It's found inside of you.  Begin with a blank stare, and build your "There." That's real retirement planning. Not sure where to begin? Check out this free download: https://www.hollydonaldsonfinancialplanner.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Beyond-the-Numbers-Whats-Retirement-Money-For.pdf for a questionnaire about what kind of retirement lifestyle choices are ideal for you.   Or subscribe to the award-winning monthly letter, "The View From the Porch," at https://bit.ly/3t2uwfn.

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5 Top Books Read in 2023

5 top books read in 2023: What books made an impact on you last year? Each year a few selections from the prior year's reading are highlighted here. For 2023, below are 5 favorites (actually, 4 books and 1 app) from finance and retirement, self-help, and fiction. Finance and Retirement The finance and retirement book recommendation this year is Get What's Yours: The Secrets to Maxing Out Your Social Security, by Lawrence Kotlikoff, Paul Solomon, and Philip Moeller. Although published in 2016 it's been updated for current changes to the claiming rules. Do you really need to read a book about Social Security? Isn't filing pretty straightforward? Maybe, maybe not. It's easier to say who would not necessarily benefit from the book than who would. The book might not be for you if: you already filed for Social Security more than 12 months ago (because, did you know everyone gets a one-time filing do-over in the first 12 months?); or you are not yet 62 and you and your spouse have never been divorced, disabled, widowed, or worked for an employer who opted out of participating in Social Security (generally this would be certain railroad companies or municipal governments). These rule out a few million people, but for the other tens of millions, there is probably something useful inside this book that could save anywhere from a few thousand to a few hundred thousand dollars over the rest of their lives. Life Improvement: (also known as "self-help") Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive by Kristen Neff, Ph.D.. Neff's specialty reminds me of Brene' Brown's - a narrow niche of psychological research for which she has chosen to become a deep expert. In Brown's case it's empathy while in Neff's case it's self-compassion. I didn't even know what self-compassion meant when I began reading and studying Neff's work about three years ago. Lest it be confused with becoming a tender-hearted wuss, Neff makes clear that self-compassion requires a ferociousness that is societally frowned upon in women. How to act on that feeling while also expressing self-compassion is the balancing act which she skillfully examines and explains. Not a book, but an app: Insight Timer. I keep this one in my Mental Health folder on the first screen of my phone. It's my go-to app first thing in the morning for a guided meditation or simple calming wake-up music (try for example, "A New Day," by Wakes/Ada and Nathan). Later I consult it again when I need to get to (or get back to) sleep. The teachers are well-vetted by IT and then rated by worldwide listeners. Guided practices span the gamut of spiritual and religious traditions. There are musicians in varied stress-relieving genres to choose from (calming piano - try Chris Collins; cello - try The Wong Janice; recorded nature sounds - Insight Timer Earth). Currently IT claims 28 million listeners. Fiction On the fun side, here were 2 picks for fiction.…

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When Money-Opposites Attract

When money-opposites attract: One's a saver. One's a spender. One would rather be at the mall. The other is into investments. While they love their differences overall, they struggle with disagreements about money. Money is the third most frequent topic of marital arguments, after chores and children. Ironing out the wrinkles in money beliefs, behaviors and decisions can go a long way toward reaching financial goals with peace and harmony - whether those goals be at the mall, or in the savings account. How can couples handle mixed money messages? Try three steps. Step 1: Money Script Awareness Sometimes we don't realize the underlying money beliefs that drive our own and our partner's decisions. These are often called money "scripts." (You can find yours using an online test developed by Dr. Brad Klontz here.) Share with each other the money messages you grew up with. Examples might include "Money doesn't grow on trees," or "You only live once." The goal in sharing is to begin to reach an understanding of the other's background. Share who influenced you when it came to handling money. Money script influences can come from various authority figures - parents, grandparents, teachers, coaches, or spiritual leaders. Share what you believe is the most important value that money provides to you. Values derived from money can include security, achievement, sharing, and spontaneity/having fun. Even a general rejection of money (think 1960s hippie culture) can be a money value. Step 2: Concentrate on conversation Now that the money differences are on the table, how do conversations about it go? It's important to communicate about how you communicate. The goal is for each partner to feel heard and understood. If one or both are falling short on feeling heard and understood, "active listening" is one tool to try. In an abbreviated form of active listening, each partner takes a turn being the sharer and the listener. The sharer tells their story or shares their statement about a topic. The listener then completes three steps. mirror back what they thought they heard, check for understanding, and empathize if appropriate. For example, say the sharer talks about feeling discounted or ignored with important money decisions. The listening partner listens without comment. The listening partner's three steps might begin like this: "So what I heard you say was..." (repeat back, even if it's verbatim, what you heard) "Did I get it all?" (If yes, go to next step. If no, listen to what was missed, and go back to mirroring what you heard.) "I can see how that would be difficult/challenging/etc. for you." Or, if it's true, "If I were in your shoes I would feel the same." This empathetic statement is not necessarily an agreement (although it's nice), but at a minimum an acknowledgement of understanding. All three of these must be completed before it's time to switch roles. Step 3: Respectful Negotiation With enhanced understanding, a couple is better equipped to come to a mutually agreeable solution. Several years ago…

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